Comments on: Slobs Allowed? http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/ Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:07:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 By: Misa http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/#comment-373 Misa Tue, 01 Apr 2008 22:26:50 +0000 http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/#comment-373 I agree, LC, that bad hygiene and filth would be a MAJOR turn off. Messy, to a degree, wouldn't be intolerable, but I'd rather have tidy (though not obsessive). I agree, LC, that bad hygiene and filth would be a MAJOR turn off. Messy, to a degree, wouldn’t be intolerable, but I’d rather have tidy (though not obsessive).

]]> By: Misa http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/#comment-372 Misa Tue, 01 Apr 2008 22:23:00 +0000 http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/#comment-372 Ew, Lee. That guy sounds awful. Did he seriously SAY that's why he needed a girlfriend? Yuk. Ew, Lee. That guy sounds awful. Did he seriously SAY that’s why he needed a girlfriend? Yuk.

]]> By: Lone Chatelaine http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/#comment-369 Lone Chatelaine Tue, 01 Apr 2008 11:20:36 +0000 http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/#comment-369 Messiness wouldn't bother me. I'd pick up after him and enjoy it :-) ...but I wouldn't tolerate bad hygiene or grossness or filth. I wouldn't mind tending to him, though, picking up his clothes or cooking for him. I guess I'm just a pleaser that way. Messiness wouldn’t bother me. I’d pick up after him and enjoy it :-)

…but I wouldn’t tolerate bad hygiene or grossness or filth.

I wouldn’t mind tending to him, though, picking up his clothes or cooking for him. I guess I’m just a pleaser that way.

]]> By: Lee http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/#comment-368 Lee Mon, 31 Mar 2008 19:59:21 +0000 http://chasingheroes.com/slobs-allowed/#comment-368 I don't want complete control and neatness. But a total slob I wouldn't find appealing. After all if he lived in chaos, it might be sign of things to come in a relationship. Somewhere in the middle would work best. When I was single, I dated a man, who in appearance was neat and clean. And yes, very nice. When I went to is apartment, I was stunned by the mess. I couldn't even use the restroom, it was so disgusting. Then he said to me, "You see why I need a girlfriend." It was such a turn off. Our relationship never went any further. He was looking for a maid, not a companion. I use cleaning the house to relieve stress. But if worked right, a heroine could be very clean and hero, well not so, but not dirty. It could cause some conflict. It did in my real life, many moons ago. I don’t want complete control and neatness. But a total slob I wouldn’t find appealing. After all if he lived in chaos, it might be sign of things to come in a relationship. Somewhere in the middle would work best.

When I was single, I dated a man, who in appearance was neat and clean. And yes, very nice. When I went to is apartment, I was stunned by the mess. I couldn’t even use the restroom, it was so disgusting. Then he said to me, “You see why I need a girlfriend.”

It was such a turn off. Our relationship never went any further. He was looking for a maid, not a companion.

I use cleaning the house to relieve stress. But if worked right, a heroine could be very clean and hero, well not so, but not dirty. It could cause some conflict. It did in my real life, many moons ago.

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