http://chasingheroes.com/rhage-warrior-charmer/ Thu, 21 Aug 2008 17:18:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 http://chasingheroes.com/rhage-warrior-charmer/#comment-583 Lone Chatelaine Mon, 19 May 2008 12:45:32 +0000 http://chasingheroes.com/rhage-warrior-charmer/#comment-583 I think I used to be extremely forgiving. I forgave my ex longterm boyfriend for a whole lot more than I should have. I don't think I'm as forgiving now. I kind of worry about that, though. I'm not sure it's such a good thing even though it's a protection or defense I've formed. I just hope that it's more middle ground instead of the extreme opposite. I think I used to be extremely forgiving. I forgave my ex longterm boyfriend for a whole lot more than I should have. I don’t think I’m as forgiving now. I kind of worry about that, though. I’m not sure it’s such a good thing even though it’s a protection or defense I’ve formed. I just hope that it’s more middle ground instead of the extreme opposite.

]]> http://chasingheroes.com/rhage-warrior-charmer/#comment-577 Misa Fri, 16 May 2008 02:11:25 +0000 http://chasingheroes.com/rhage-warrior-charmer/#comment-577 I hold grudges and have difficulty forgiving. Estrangement from family is an example. Being able to forgive would mean my kids could see their grandparents and cousins, etc, but knowing that the family hasn't changed or can't apologize means that I can't get past it. My own issues, I know, but it's the way I am. I hold grudges and have difficulty forgiving. Estrangement from family is an example. Being able to forgive would mean my kids could see their grandparents and cousins, etc, but knowing that the family hasn’t changed or can’t apologize means that I can’t get past it. My own issues, I know, but it’s the way I am.

]]> http://chasingheroes.com/rhage-warrior-charmer/#comment-575 Lee Thu, 15 May 2008 16:04:03 +0000 http://chasingheroes.com/rhage-warrior-charmer/#comment-575 I forgave my ex-husband for leaving me. Yes, he had an affair and packed his bags and left me with bills and 3 mouths to feed. But in the end it was the best thing for us. I had to forgive him to move on and be emotionally healthy. He wanted to come back, after six months, but that I couldn't do, because the affair he really wanted, and so did she. Even with the struggles, I couldn't live with him again, but I could forgive him after I let time heal me. I also had 3 kids, that needed me. I didn't have time to wallow in my self-pity. I do believe time heals all wounds, if you let it. Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting, and learning from the experience. Which I did. I forgave my ex-husband for leaving me. Yes, he had an affair and packed his bags and left me with bills and 3 mouths to feed. But in the end it was the best thing for us. I had to forgive him to move on and be emotionally healthy. He wanted to come back, after six months, but that I couldn’t do, because the affair he really wanted, and so did she. Even with the struggles, I couldn’t live with him again, but I could forgive him after I let time heal me. I also had 3 kids, that needed me. I didn’t have time to wallow in my self-pity. I do believe time heals all wounds, if you let it. Forgiving doesn’t mean forgetting, and learning from the experience. Which I did.

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