In the Name of the Rose
I spent the morning trimming my roses, cleaning up around their base, and just in general enjoying them. Even with the thorns sticking me, as I battle aphids, I love the infamous flower. They’ve been apart of my life, my entire life. There isn’t a female blood relative of mine, that doesn’t have roses in their yard. It seems to be engrained in our DNA. It’s the marker that reads, “Must have roses.”After I trimmed my dozen or so plants, I cleaned up, and sat down to try to figure out what I was going to blog about. When I heard some voices outside my den window. They were young voices, male and female. The male voice was framed in adolescence with a depth that isn’t sure of itself. The female giggled, which gave away her age.I realized, from bits of conversation, the male was trying to pick my roses, without getting stuck. A task I haven’t achieved yet.This is nothing new to my roses. They sit on the side of my house near the public sidewalk. Even today, I found broken branches from those who just couldn’t resist them, and tore them off the stem. It always makes me hurt for my dear plant, because of the damage. But today, I decided I’d save my plants, and commit a random act of kindness. I grabbed my clippers, and confronted the young couple. Who looked scared witless when I rounded the corner, with clippers in hand. I’m sure the young man was imagining all sorts of torturous things I was about to put on his young person. In short they looked not only very guilty with one broken rose in hand, but just a bit terrified.I asked the young man if he was picking my roses for his girlfriend, who stood clinging to his arm.He nodded, speechless, readying himself for the assault.”Okay, let me cut some for you. I’ll give you a nice big bouquet.”Now they looked completely speechless. He nodded again.So I went about the business of gathering a nice bouquet of my beautiful big roses of various colors. As I clipped I chatted, and told them about the damage it does to the plant to just rip the rose off. The young girl responded that when she had her own house, she wanted roses. I was thrilled maybe she was a convert to the love of the ancient flower. Wrapping the bouquet in newspaper, so as not to damage the fair maiden’s fingers, I handed it to her knight, to give to her.He looked at me, still a bit dizzy, and said, “Thanks, this is so cool.”He gave the flowers to his very thrilled and adoring girlfriend. As they left, I told them they could knock on my door when they wanted another bouquet.I work hard on my roses, and I love to share them. They are one of the greatest symbols of romance and love in the world. And they can brighten any day. And yes, the roses in the picture are from my yard. I feel my flowers are like my writing. I work hard at making it beautiful, and want nothing more than to share it with outsiders.Have a wonderful 4th, be safe and stop to smell the roses.Question of the Day: What random act of kindness have you committed recently?
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July 4th, 2008 at 9:46 am
My neighbor’s dog is the sweetest dog in the world, but she’s also a meddler. She spends a lot of time at my house and is a good playmate for my dog when I let her outside, so I feel like she’s mine. Especially when I wake up to trash torn up in my yard where she got into someone’s garbage the night before. For some reason, she usually brings it to my yard to munch on. Being a dog lover I just clean it up and don’t say anything, because she doesn’t mean any harm, and she’s just a doggie doing her thing, and really she brings it to me because she’s comfortable in my yard, and I like that.
But lately, I’ve seen it in another yard that’s diagonally across the road. And they’re not so easy-going. So I’ve been cleaning up the trash she’s torn up before they see it. I don’t want her to get in trouble, and I don’t want my neighbor’s to be forced to pen her up. We live out in the country, outside city limits, and unless dogs are a nuisance, there are no ordinances about leashes or anything. So I’ve been cleaning up the trash to keep the peace and keep the doggie free.
July 4th, 2008 at 12:28 pm
It’s amazing what we do to keep peace in our neighborhood and lives. In the end its always well worth it.
July 4th, 2008 at 8:37 pm
No random acts of kindness for me lately, but I enjoyed a smile and a sweet touch of my heart at your story. You are too sweet for words!
July 5th, 2008 at 8:48 am
My old neighbor went around the neighborhood on Mother’s Day and clipped roses from numerous houses [she lives with her mom and that must have been the gift mom was getting!]. My best friend sat in her study watching as Nina clipped away. Your story brought back this memory!
As to a random act of kindness, hmmm, I think it’s the little things that I try to do. Simple things like holding the door for people, giving people the chance to turn when car after car passes them by, etc.
Nice column, Lee!
July 5th, 2008 at 9:38 am
There are so many small things we can do that is just a random act of kindness, letting cars go first. My husband the other day helped a elderly lady load a heavy box of soap into her car. Just small things, that makes the day. My neighbors have open permission to clip my roses. As long as they clip and not rip them. LOL. They do sometimes, because I have so many, and well tell me. I love to share them.